Saturday, January 11, 2014

Polarities of leadership

To me, leadership is primarily about achieving the optimal balance between the various polarities in organizational life.

You are a leader if you can find the right balance between polarities like
  1. Being confident & making a vulnerable connection
  2. Providing hope & being realistic
  3. Driving change & maintaining stability
  4. Shaping the organization culture (and the definition of 'good' in the organization) & adjusting to the organization culture
  5. Taking too much risk & taking too little risk
  6. Focusing on the long term & responding to immediate challenges
  7. Taking charge & letting others take charge
  8. Maintaining a broad perspective & developing micro-awareness
  9. Being consistent & being  flexible
  10. Organization building & creative destruction
  11. Acting based on who you are as an organization & acting based on what the environment demands
  12. Holding on & moving on
The ‘right balance’ is highly context specific. It is also a dynamic balance/equilibrium as opposed to a static one(In a state of static equilibrium there is balance, but no change or movement - that exists in the case of dynamic equilibrium.  For example, a chair has static equilibrium while a bicycle in motion has dynamic equilibrium). Again, the equilibrium point is an evolving one - based on the evolution of the leader, followers and the organization.

All in all, it is quite a moving target & that is why it is so difficult to ‘train in’ leadership. While useful inputs/helpful experiences/coaching can be provided, leadership capability emerges in a non-linear fashion in the being of a person based on years of struggle with the polarities mentioned above! Of course, all the organizational issues are not ‘polarities’ and  one of the necessary conditions for leadership to emerge is the ability to differentiate between ‘a polarity to be managed’ & ‘a problem to be solved’!!

So, what do you think? If the 'work of leadership' is conceptualized mainly as 'achieving dynamic balance between polarities in organizational life', what does it mean for (a) leaders, (b) for team members (c) for organizations & (d) leadership development?

Note:  Since we have defined the work of leadership in terms of  'achieving optimal balance between polarities in organizational life', it would be interesting look at this 'optimal balance' in more detail. It is not about 'compromise' between the two poles (like a consistent score of 3 in a 1 to 5 scale-with 1 representing one pole and 5 representing the other). It is more about being a '1', '2', '3', '4' or '5'  based on the situation. Strangely, it also involves  transcending the scale by (as Pirsig says) catching the bull (polarity) by both its horns (poles) & even singing the bull to sleep. It is not about being 'timid' and avoiding strong decisions/behavior. It is about the ability to display a wide spectrum of responses and the courage to choose the appropriate response based on the situation. The courage also involves the willingness to explain why a particular choice was made in a particular situation - so that the behavioral flexibility won't become confusing to the team (i.e. variation in responses has to be accompanied by consistency at the level of underlying principles of choosing particular responses in a particular situations & these principles have to be communicated to the team - otherwise this flexibility will come across as inconsistency). Yes, this also involves taking feedback/admitting one's mistakes and revising one's mental map when required. Deep understanding & trust about the leader (i.e. understanding 'who he is' in terms of the principles governing his actions) - developed over a period of time - will obviate the need to explain everything every time! It is said that 'sometimes, who you are speaks so loudly that people can't hear what you are saying'!

Developing this kind  of behavioral range, that too across the many polarities in organizational life, takes a lot of development (psychological/spiritual growth) on the part of the leader. Please note that displaying a wide range of behaviors can put a lot of pressure on the leader's psyche as it involves  'holding multiple sets of diametrically opposite ideas in the mind at the same time' and constantly adjusting the balance/(as it is about dynamic balance as opposed to static balance). Yes, this development/growth (like all psychological growth) can be taxing as it demands regularly stretching one's boundaries. No -this does not mean that there is no room for the natural self/style of the leader, as it is about expanding the self as opposed to developing towards some (standard) 'ideal self'. Yes - it usually takes significant amount of time. But, we need to keep in mind that this development is a matter of degree & that different people learn at different speeds. So, investing in increasing one' ability to 'derive learning/growth from experience' becomes critical - especially for young leaders!!


Unknown said...

not sure if I have been able to comprehend you well or if I have, do I agree with you?

"Optimal balance" between 2 polarities, both desirable in different situations & contexts,while is a good skill, it can only be learnt/ honed with careful reflection, maturity and years of experience.

I have the following for you to reflect on: (:
1. Is it possible/ desirable to have some one, who can run like a tiger and walk like an elephant (You get the point,right!)
2. Does it not bely the theory of "competencies" and "natural leader" when a leader's personality is not commonly understood by his team- (How is s/he likely to react!)
3. Are we not expecting far too much from a leader- especially those who are younger?
4. Does "moderate balance" theory not smack of a bit of timid- not taking clear bold sides.

Unknown said...

Not sure if I have been able to comprehend the essence of your premise- or if I have, to what extent I agree :) :(

I have the following thoughts that you may want to consider:
1. Is it really possible (or even desirable) to have an animal who walks like an elephant and runs like a tiger (You get the point, right!)

2. Is the ‘optimal balance” not akin to “rating 3 on a scale of point 1-5)- short of taking bold choices.

3. Will such a leader not ‘confuse “ his/her team (How would my leader react in this situation and that).

4. Will such a leader not need to put too much pressure on self- to not behave in the “natural manner”- which could be one of the extreme polarities?

Prasad Kurian said...

@ Ritesh

Thank you very much for reading my blog and for your thoughtful comments/questions. I have added a note to the original post to explain the 'optimal balance' in more detail. Hope this clarifies!

Unknown said...

Thanks Prasad....Your "note" did help in clarifying your theory better....My only 2 bit here is that is good, it is right, it is even need of the times and hugely desirable...but is it realistically possible or much tims frame and how...any celebrated role models?..

Having said this, I must compliment you on a very well written piece and a bright idea that can be developed further......

Prasad Kurian said...

@ Ritesh

Thank you. Yes, it is a difficult thing to pull off. That is why even after spending Billions of Dollars on leadership training, there is not much improvement in leadership capability!

Thanks for making me think. Yes, this idea needs to be developed further and I will work on the same & keep you posted.

Katherine Noto said...

Most issues and challenges in organizations are viewed as problems to be solved or things to be fixed. There's often a more productive way to think about addressing challenging issues

Prasad Kurian said...

@ Katherine

Thank you very much. Solving (resolving)or fixing gives a sense of 'closure' and it is better aligned to the popular image/stereotype of what leaders are supposed to do!!!